First you have to break the hymen
(deflower), then it gets very wet, few days of bleeding a month, pregnancy sets
in (suggesting more sex), post pregnancy sex fast, complimented by varying
methods of contraception, a fluctuating period, then blood finally stops
showing up and just when sex should be enjoyed without checking the calendar
the vagina goes dry permanently. With this I justify why married women should
enjoy sex when they are young. A man just needs to want it and that’s all, no
obstruction, no limitations at all. But I think erectile dysfunction is a form
of male sexual pause to meet up the dryness in their partners.
I respect married men that are still
interested in satisfying their wives after menopause. It’s like starting sex
all over again. You will need to rediscover erogenous zones, explore new
techniques to prevent pain and bone injury.
The deep penetrating positions like “from
behind” can be very painful for women beyond menopause. Woman on top,
missionary and less penetrating positions can be very helpful. Slow pace and
more foreplay are very helpful. Massage, bubble bath (just water preferred),
swimming are forms of foreplay to boost sensuality.
The perpetual dryness of the vagina poses a
threat to the use of condoms (why use condoms except you are trying to prevent
STI). Lubricants like ky jelly, astroglide are fantastic even with condoms. The
vagina health is improved with more sex at this age. It reduces shrinkage and
creates a process that reduces dryness.
Soya beans, pumpkin seeds (ugwu), apples,
walnuts, coconuts, cashewnuts, are very helpful for post menopausal vaginal
health. Soya beans contain a natural form of oestrogen that helps reduce
vaginal dryness.
I suggest more sexual activity, as much as
once daily to promote the health of the vaginal muscles.
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